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		<title>Why Choose Bands To Hire</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 07:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Glenda Burns</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[You might ask yourself whether you would like to listen to a CD or attend a live concert. The same concept can be used when thinking about providing music at a party or wedding. You can't deny that a live band can match the mood of every party, even at weddings; They are the ones playing the music and they can collectively feel the crowd. This is just one of the positive points about bands for hire. Wouldn't it be nice to have a memorable party in which live performances add an extra element?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might ask yourself whether you would like to listen to a CD or attend a live concert. The same concept can be used when thinking about providing music at a party or wedding. You can&#8217;t deny that a live band can match the mood of every party, even at weddings; They are the ones playing the music and they can collectively feel the crowd. This is just one of the positive points about bands for hire. Wouldn&#8217;t it be nice to have a memorable party in which live performances add an extra element?</p>
<p>Different moments ask for different tones as well, and a live band can adjust. If it&#8217;s an up beat song or one suitable for a slow dance, it is within the band&#8217;s ability to accommodate. If an embarrassing moment occurs, the band can easily shift the attention to other guests or ask for another speech. It is only another person behind a microphone that can interrupt a drunken speech.</p>
<p>Your guests can make requests, which is not possible at live concerts, creating a more luxurious feel. The guests then keep dancing, waiting to hear their songs and are more eager to dance when their songs are played. This level of interaction creates a warm atmosphere. Since bands are good at their music, they can change their songs to match your party as well.</p>
<p>Band-guest interaction is a key factor to any live performance. You want your guests to feel special and this will do the job. Your guests will spend more time dancing, and less time sitting at their tables. It is crucial to consider the song choices before the event, because although they are able to improvise, you don&#8217;t want to worry about hearing music you don&#8217;t like.</p>
<p>A band i able to understand and feel the mood better because they are a group of musicians. Different members give the entertainment unique personalities that can connect with the party. This will be a group effort and can therefore be effective in matching your preferences.</p>
<p>When band members need to take a break, others can take over and hence, there never needs to be a break in the music. Band members are more reliable in this fashion and are also able to make sure the other is on task. It is important to make sure the members are responsible when meeting with them.</p>
<p>Creating mixed CDs beforehand to play continuously, or hiring a DJ for less money are also options, but the element of performance is what can be offered by a live band. This is not only worth the money but adds elegance and class to any party. It is also something that sets any event apart form others, since DJs are at every club and lounge.</p>
<p>If you have a themed wedding or party, it is a live performance that can accommodate your concept and stick to your theme. Otherwise, certain existing songs must be matched to your theme, which can create a burden. Existing song can also become overplayed, where a live performance can be unique to your event, which will be remembered for its uniqueness and unforgettable music. Conclusively, bands to hire are an improvement to any event.</p>
<p>Expert Jamie Botham is a writer for the http://www.souldesire.co.uk site. Hiring a specialist <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/booking-bands/">Booking Bands</a> will ensure the success of your event. Find out more about how to <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/book-a-band/">book a band</a> when you visit this website.</p>
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		<title>Planning Your Wedding On A Budget</title>
		<link>http://savvynewsnet.com/2010/07/27/planning-your-wedding-on-a-budget/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 07:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Hinson</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It is very easy to get carried away when planning your wedding. Your wedding is the one occasion when it is easy to go overboard. Money that would be better spent on buying a house or finalizing your school loans can easily disappear in its hundreds and thousands. Weddings are a multi-billion dollar industry, offering everything any bride could want. But you don't need to break the bank to have a fantastic wedding day.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is very easy to get carried away when planning your wedding. Your wedding is the one occasion when it is easy to go overboard. Money that would be better spent on buying a house or finalizing your school loans can easily disappear in its hundreds and thousands. Weddings are a multi-billion dollar industry, offering everything any bride could want. But you don&#8217;t need to break the bank to have a fantastic wedding day.</p>
<p>Think Small</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve got your notepad and pen, and you&#8217;ve started listing names. You write down your immediate family and friends, but you don&#8217;t stop there. After about ten pages you&#8217;re trying to remember the name of the girl who sat next to you in third grade. By this stage, it isn&#8217;t even that you particularly want to invite her. Or even remember her. But you&#8217;ve listed people that she knows, and you would hate for her to feel insulted.</p>
<p>The invitation list is the first place to trim when you are planning a wedding on a budget. Of course you will need to invite your immediate family and friends, but if you don&#8217;t invite other people that you know, they are not going to be offended. In most cases, they will simply wish you the best, and realize that you are watching your expenses. Remember that weddings can be expensive for guests as well. They need to buy new clothes, organize babysitters and, of course, buy a present. In many cases, they may be relieved not to be invited. If, for some reason, someone does feel offended at not being included, don&#8217;t worry too much. Either they&#8217;ll come to understand and get over it, or you were better off without them anyway.</p>
<p>Clip Coupons</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t pay top dollar. You can often save a lot of money by looking at discount alternatives. You may find a wedding dress and your other formal clothing available at reduced prices at a discount store. Although you may have always dreamed of being treated like a princess as you had a score of seamstresses bustling around you, this is a dream that very few people can actually afford.</p>
<p>Buying discount doesn&#8217;t mean that you need to sacrifice your dream completely. You can still find a dress that will make you feel like a princess on your big day. You may have to spend a little extra for tailoring, but the money you save in the end can pay for things that you really need. You can keep the discount theme going when it comes to shoes, hair, makeup, flowers, and everything else on your list. Leave retail to the rich and famous.</p>
<p>Think Green</p>
<p>By thinking green, you can also cut down on your expenses. Up-cycled items may be the perfect way to save you money. Although environmentally friendly products such as organic vegetables and recycled goods tend to be more expensive than their counterparts, thinking green for your wedding may just help you come in under budget. If you have friends or relatives that have more than one wedding under their belt, chances are they have an attic full of once-worn dresses. There&#8217;s a pretty good chance that they won&#8217;t even have any emotional attachment to the dress either. At least, not a good one. A little work by a good tailor can easily turn that recycled treasure into a gown befitting a princess for a much smaller investment than a brand new dress.</p>
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		<title>Take Your Wedding Up A Notch With A Party Band</title>
		<link>http://savvynewsnet.com/2010/07/16/take-your-wedding-up-a-notch-with-a-party-band/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 07:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul White</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There is really no one in the world that hates music, it is an intrinsic part of what it means to be human. It is a central part of many cultures and a main form of expression. New forms of music are born out their time and circumstances, like the birth of jazz as a uniquely American artform. Music is always evolving and changing and we are surrounded by it now more than ever, what with the invention of mp3 players. These players are able to hold libraries of music, more than many could have conceived of listening in their lifetime and it allows us to be more voracious when it comes to the music we listen to.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is really no one in the world that hates music, it is an intrinsic part of what it means to be human. It is a central part of many cultures and a main form of expression. New forms of music are born out their time and circumstances, like the birth of jazz as a uniquely American artform. Music is always evolving and changing and we are surrounded by it now more than ever, what with the invention of mp3 players. These players are able to hold libraries of music, more than many could have conceived of listening in their lifetime and it allows us to be more voracious when it comes to the music we listen to.</p>
<p>Music is also a trigger for memory and so when it comes to choosing a song for a couple&#8217;s wedding day, it can be a large decision. You are essentially creating a memory that you want to carry forward to the rest of your life. So what sounds better - dancing to a recorded track off of some DJ&#8217;s playlist, or swaying across the dancefloor the sound of real instruments and a live party band? The right choice is a party band.</p>
<p>Many people get DJs for their parties and occasions, but other than having playlists of music and a small sound system to play them out of, what is it that they do that a child couldn&#8217;t accomplish?</p>
<p>Throwing on a mix of party music is a great way to set a fun mood at a house party, but when the occasions become larger and more ornate the DJ equipment should stay at home. Many weddings have ornate dresses and fancy tuxedos, but relegate their reception to a cheesy DJ.</p>
<p>Prestige is inherent in the musicians of a party band. You cannot go out and purchase a guitar right now with the hopes of learning it over the weekend. Musicians train for years in their craft and being an especially strong air of professionalism and pinache.</p>
<p>Some may say that DJs are the better choice, but it is nothing more than the sign of the times that we would prefer mediocrity and a modicum of talent that can be easily duplicated by ourselves.</p>
<p>Musicians are dedicated to their craft and have spent their lives learning music and musical instruments and are dedicated to the art of music in a way that a DJ could never be. Also, there is no substitute of live instruments which lend an air of class to any occasion, especially a wedding.</p>
<p>Planning a wedding takes a lot of time and money, but as with any part of the event, your budget can find a worthy recipient. Bands can range from lower than one thousand dollars to up to three thousand, but those prices include all of the accompanying sound set up.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let some DJ charge you hundreds to thousands of dollars to appear at your wedding and play songs you hear on the radio, instead get a live party band and make your wedding reception as fun as any concert you&#8217;ve ever been to.</p>
<p>Expert Lyndsey Seabrook is a member of &#8216;Soul Desire&#8217; featured at the http://www.souldesire.co.uk website. Hiring a specialist <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/wedding-band/">Wedding Band</a> will ensure the success of your event. Find out more about hiring a professional <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/private-party-band-hertfordshire/">Private Party Band Hertfordshire</a> from this site.</p>
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		<title>Contemporary Wedding Flowers For Extremely Graceful Weddings</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 07:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lillian Smith</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Wedding is the most special occasion in a person's life. It is a beautiful relationship that ties two hearts and soul and binds the two hearts in a long lasting relationship. Everyone wants that his wedding ceremony must have something very special. It is the decorations that make the wedding ceremony a success. Decorations are incomplete without flowers. Wedding flowers are the most essential part of almost all the wedding ceremony. These flowers are definitely proficient to add charm and grace to the wedding ceremonies and the reception parties. With the help of their beautiful color, petals and fragrance they add flavors of love and romance in the entire environment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wedding is the most special occasion in a person&#8217;s life. It is a beautiful relationship that ties two hearts and soul and binds the two hearts in a long lasting relationship. Everyone wants that his wedding ceremony must have something very special. It is the decorations that make the wedding ceremony a success. Decorations are incomplete without flowers. Wedding flowers are the most essential part of almost all the wedding ceremony. These flowers are definitely proficient to add charm and grace to the wedding ceremonies and the reception parties. With the help of their beautiful color, petals and fragrance they add flavors of love and romance in the entire environment.</p>
<p>Wedding ceremonies are just incomplete without these beautiful creations of nature. These are the best alternatives that can offer a soothing and refreshing ambiance inside a marriage ceremony. No doubt these gorgeous flowers add a magical touch towards the wedding party. They enhance the beauty in the location and make it extremely magnificent.</p>
<p>Whenever it is the season of marriage you can find the market place fully occupied with these beautiful flowers. Today contemporary wedding flowers have gained a lot of recognition in the souk. You can easily find out centerpieces and bouquets in the floral boutiques. These are really the best options that create a pleasant atmosphere in your wedding ceremony.</p>
<p>Contemporary wedding ceremony flowers are quickly accessible with several features such as leaves and stems that enrich the glamour in you wedding ceremony. You&#8217;ll be able to decorate your entire wedding ceremony venue using the assist of these magnificent and pretty flowers. You will find many techniques in which you can use them to decorate your wedding ceremony venue. You possibly can use a zebra grass via which you&#8217;ll be able to give a striped touch for your decorations. The outer edge of the blossom can also be applied.</p>
<p>Flowers would be the greatest creation with the nature. They are wonderful, have excellent fragrance and add glitters for your wedding party. These flowers can be used with much funky stuff to enrich the charm on the location. These flowers are very lovely and would be the finest part on the wedding ceremony decorations. So, in case you want to select perfect wedding decorations, you need to pay specific attention towards them. These flowers will undoubtedly aid you to create your wedding ceremony graceful and lovely. Concentrate on your decorations and make your wedding a memorable experience.</p>
<p>Flowers are the most essential part of every wedding ceremony. You can simply add appeal to your wedding ceremony with the help of elegant <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.weddingwildflowers.com/">wedding wildflowers</a>. You can learn more about wedding flower bouquets, and get many more ideas and resources about wedding flowers by visiting <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.weddingwildflowers.com/make-your-wedding-ceremony-special-with-the-tropical-wedding-flowers/">tropical wedding flowers</a>.</p>
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		<title>What About When A Wife Hates Sex, Can You Save The Marriage?</title>
		<link>http://savvynewsnet.com/2010/07/03/what-about-when-a-wife-hates-sex-can-you-save-the-marriage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 07:52:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret Hardisty</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Jarod was muscular, handsome and ready to walk - away from his marriage. "Christina hates sex," he told us. "She's been like that ever since our kids were born. Is there any way you can help me so I want to save this marriage instead of hitting the road?"]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jarod was muscular, handsome and ready to walk - away from his marriage. &#8220;Christina hates sex,&#8221; he told us. &#8220;She&#8217;s been like that ever since our kids were born. Is there any way you can help me so I want to save this marriage instead of hitting the road?&#8221;</p>
<p>Jarod told her about us and she decided to come to our sessions as well. &#8220;I love Jarod but I can&#8217;t stand his touching me,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I know he&#8217;s ready to leave, but if it means that I have to put up with his sexual stuff, I don&#8217;t care if we save this marriage or not.&#8221;</p>
<p>If sex disgusts you - if it&#8217;s a bother - or a waste of time - or it hurts - or is repulsive - or makes you feel dirty - or used - or you never experience pleasure from it&#8230;you need to realize that your reactions are not normal. This is a very common problem that women women suffer through at the expense of their relationships. The thing to remember is that people don&#8217;t start thinking or acting a certain way for no reason. If you think you&#8217;ve gone through all the causes, forward and backward, and have come to the conclusion that sex is still all the things we mentioned above, don&#8217;t pass on this yet. You may have missed that one ingredient that will make a difference in your life.</p>
<p>There always is a cause behind an emotion, a feeling, or a behavior. If you think you&#8217;ve gone through all the causes, forward and backward, and have come to the conclusion that sex is still all the things we mentioned above, don&#8217;t pass on this yet. You may have missed that one ingredient that will make a difference in your life.</p>
<p>Other brain chemicals are released, too, like serotonin and endogenous opioids, the body&#8217;s equivalent of heroin. Sex really does relax you and improve your mood. It&#8217;s also why some people can immediately go to sleep.</p>
<p>All of these things tell you one thing. Only that sex is important to all of us on a number of levels: emotional, psychological and physical; and is the chemical glue that cements a relationship.</p>
<p>What happens in your body and brain can, to a large extent, cause you to get addicted to love and the person whom you love. Other brain chemicals are released, too, like serotonin and endogenous opioids, the body&#8217;s equivalent of heroin. Yup, that&#8217;s the reason why those aches and pains tend to go away after sex and you often feel like going to sleep.</p>
<p>What are we trying to say? Only that sex is important to all of us on a number of levels: emotional, psychological and physical; and is the chemical glue that cements a relationship.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re missing out on one of the wonderful experiences of life that no woman should be without, if you reject lovemaking. Making love should be a delight to you, as well as your guy, and though it may surprise you, most men don&#8217;t really enjoy sex unless their wives are enjoying it, too. Oh, they may have an orgasm, but the frustration of not being able to please the one they&#8217;re with short circuits much of the pleasure and eventually makes sex more of a chore than anything else.</p>
<p>When we talk with a woman who doesn&#8217;t enjoy her sexual relationship with her husband, we uncover a number of reasons. Here are three rather common ones: * There was a priest/pastor and/or a parent who told her that, according to the Bible, sex is dirty and shameful, and she should indulge in it only to have a baby. The Bible teaches no such thing. Rather, but rather just the opposite.</p>
<p>* She had an authority figure who told her, as she was growing up, that men want women for nothing but to satisfy their sexual appetites. A few are like that. The majority aren&#8217;t * Your husband has never learned how to make love so it is a pleasure to you. He needs to read our books: Forever My Love and Keep Love Exciting and Lasting.</p>
<p>Our counseling experience has exposed these reasons and even more. If you treasure your marriage and want to save it, find out why you don&#8217;t enjoy sex with your guy and then determine to do everything you can to change the circumstances. We wrote all of the related information on www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com knowing that stability and love are the foundations for intimacy.</p>
<p>Involve your partner and make a effort to beat this pattern of thought: &#8220;I want our marriage to survive, Honey, and I know this is an important part of that.&#8221; He&#8217;ll be deeply grateful that you love him enough to try, not only to come to the point of desiring him, but because you want to save your marriage. Your goal will be to like - adore - cherish lovemaking - not dislike or just tolerate it. Unless you make a conscious effort to change this attitude you may lose your marriage as a result. Save your marriage - start on it today.</p>
<p>Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com</p>
<p>Does your marriage need help? You are not alone. 100&#8217;s of thousands have used our marriage advice. <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://loverelationshipheadquarters.com">Save my marriage </a>, and get <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com/womens.html">separate help for women</a> Check here for free reprint licence: <a relpost="nofollow" href='http://www.uberarticles.com/home.php?id=3342222&amp;p=2420'>What About When A Wife Hates Sex, Can You Save The Marriage?</a>.</p>
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		<title>Is He Selling Drugs?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 07:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Vance Hardisty</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The last time I saw Gerry he was selling drugs. I was downtown and wasn't quite expecting to see him. He always had been conversant and he told me everything, "You aren't going to turn me in, are you?" he asked. Actually, I wasn't sure of his real name and I didn't know where he lived, so that would have been difficult. Vance had become acquainted with him several years before, helped him turn his life around, at least temporarily, and brought him to our house. With Vance's help, he had given up taking or selling drugs.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last time I saw Gerry he was selling drugs. I was downtown and wasn&#8217;t quite expecting to see him. He always had been conversant and he told me everything, &#8220;You aren&#8217;t going to turn me in, are you?&#8221; he asked. Actually, I wasn&#8217;t sure of his real name and I didn&#8217;t know where he lived, so that would have been difficult. Vance had become acquainted with him several years before, helped him turn his life around, at least temporarily, and brought him to our house. With Vance&#8217;s help, he had given up taking or selling drugs.</p>
<p>His parents had been extremely poor role models and his upbringing was shoddy at best. His mother, a nurse, had stolen drugs and started her kids on them. So his background had included stints in juvenile hall and later, prison. Before we met him, he&#8217;d had a baby by one woman he dearly loved, but because he was taking drugs and tended to be homicidal, she left him. He couldn&#8217;t save the relationship.</p>
<p>After Vance came into his life and Gerry was turning his life around, he married the next girlfriend but the same thing happened. She left him out of fear, despite his desires to save the marriage.</p>
<p>Like many people he could not break his bad habits. He had married another women when I saw him again and, he told me, since he wanted a lot of money, for prestige as much as anything, he had gone back to selling drugs.</p>
<p>It is nearly impossible to mend a broken marriage if there are drugs involved. In fact, it&#8217;s very difficult to deal at all with a person who indulges - because they go off the drugs, get into rehab, come out clean, get a new life - and then, like a dog going back to its own vomit, they do drugs again. When we deal with a troubled marriage or life that is complicated even further that way, we say to ourselves, &#8220;Tell me again why we are using our energy and time trying to help these people who won&#8217;t help themselves.&#8221;</p>
<p>It is very difficult to heal a marriage if drugs are involved. In fact, it&#8217;s very difficult to deal at all with a person who indulges - because they go off the drugs, get into rehab, come out clean, get a new life - and then, like a dog going back to its own vomit, they do drugs again. When we deal with a troubled marriage or life that is complicated even further that way, we say to ourselves, &#8220;Tell me again why we are using our energy and time trying to help these people who won&#8217;t help themselves.&#8221;</p>
<p>There are some successes, though. Serenita came to a number of Bible studies in our home. She had been unable to save her marriage because of a drug habit and lost custody of her children. When we met her, she had been clean for two years. She had a job in her chosen field, and her right to visit weekly with her three daughters had been restored. She&#8217;s active in her church, and has a lot of people praying for her. She&#8217;s going to make it. If you are addicted, you can shed the demon and have victory, too.</p>
<p>Your spouse, your children, your extended family, and you have a beautiful life ahead of you once you get rid of this devilish habit once and for all. It has been done by many. You will need help, but the ultimate decision to conquer is yours. Discover your weaknesses and what caused them. Then fight them as if you were a soldier going into battle and your life depended upon your using the weapons that are at your disposal against the enemy. Pray. Ask God for help. Then continue to do your part. Victory will be yours.</p>
<p>We have more on addictions as well as saving your marriage in our material and books at Love Relationship Headquarters. Come visit us and see how your life can be changed.</p>
<p>Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com</p>
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		<title>Quick Excerpts Of Wedding And Proposal Stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 08:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wendy Stoller</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[We first met in a Brisbane pub in 2003. We didn't exchange details at that time but met again at another Brisbane pub around 3 months later. We have been together ever since. Michael proposed on our 5th anniversary together. He had me convinced that it would never happen because he couldn't afford a ring. Little did I know that he had opened a secret bank account and was saving for a ring. After we had been out for dinner he told me that he had a small gift for me - even though we said no anniversary gifts. He presented me with a beautiful engagement ring.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We first met in a Brisbane pub in 2003. We didn&#8217;t exchange details at that time but met again at another Brisbane pub around 3 months later. We have been together ever since. Michael proposed on our 5th anniversary together. He had me convinced that it would never happen because he couldn&#8217;t afford a ring. Little did I know that he had opened a secret bank account and was saving for a ring. After we had been out for dinner he told me that he had a small gift for me - even though we said no anniversary gifts. He presented me with a beautiful engagement ring.</p>
<p>I was on an Oktoberfest tour in Germany and Ben was my tour guide. I thought he was very good looking and full of personality as I&#8217;m sure did most of the girls on the tour. We chatted on the bus home and he mentioned that he had moved out of his share house in London and needed a place to stay or &#8220;doss&#8221; (backpacker term). I offered my lounge room and he took me up on it and the relationship grew from there. We stayed in London a couple more years and then backpacked around USA, Canada and Sth America before heading home. Whilst in Peru in South America we decided to trek the Inca Trail. After five days of very little sleep, very little food and heaps of walking we reached machu picchu the famous Inca ruins. It was here at sunrise overlooking the ruins that Ben asked me to marry him. Exhausted as we were it was a beautiful proposal and of course I said yes!</p>
<p>Josh and I first met in 2000 through my friend (his sister). He was extremely quiet and we hardly spoke. Later in 2003 our relationship grew so much that we started dating on the 21st December. In the next 3 years we became best of friends, we would do anything for each other. He finally built up the courage to ask my dad out for coffee so he could ask his permission to marry me. My dad gladly approved.</p>
<p>We quickly decided on a wedding date and everything just seemed to fall into place over the next eight months! We knew that we didn&#8217;t want to spend a fortune on our wedding, so we got creative! We found a wonderful venue, secured a great cake maker and enlisted a fantastic florist. I ordered my gorgeous wedding dress; started making the jewellery for myself, my mum, the bridesmaids and flowergirl; and then we found family and friends to complete the picture!</p>
<p>I only had ten months to organize the wedding and I had to be well organized living so far away. The True Bride website and the Internet were excellent tools for locating suppliers. My mum and my 2 beautiful bridesmaids were an excellent help. Everything just seemed to fall into place. My bridemaids organized a girly weekend away in Gracetown, Western Australia the weekend prior to the wedding, full of massages, yoga and winery tours (I would highly recommend it, I was so relaxed on the big day).</p>
<p>We then had six to seven months to arrange our wedding and wow what a wedding it was. We had four ceremonies and two receptions. Two ceremonies were in Persia in August 2007, it was amazing. We held the reception at our own house where we hosted 200 people with the help of a professional catering and party planning company. The entire house and garden were glowing with lights. We walked across the red carpet to reach the guest&#8217;s and went straight on the dance floor &#8230; even though I thought I wouldn&#8217;t be able to dance because of my dress but I was so happy that nothing could stop me, we danced for the entire night and still around 3 am I had lots of energy and could have gone for marathon run.</p>
<p>These stories can be read at by visiting truebride.com.au. And, if there&#8217;s a wedding coming up for you, Wendy Stoller would like to take this time to invite you to visit her site for <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.weddingspeechesexamplesbuzz.info/">Examples of Wedding Speeches</a>.</p>
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		<title>Short Quick Excerpts Of Wedding And Proposal Stories Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 07:34:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wendy Stoller</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When I finished college, I moved to Queensland for two years. I eventually became home sick and moved back to Canberra. I was out partying one night with girlfriends at a bar and Mark asked a mutual friend to introduce us. We danced for a while and he asked me out to dinner the following Saturday night - I knew he was the one from that first dance. We bought a house together two years later and lived there for three years - Mark told me that he had won a prize on a local radio station for us to go skydiving. I had never done anything like it before and was very nervous, but he kept telling me that it would be ok and that I would love it. We went up in a tiny plane and when we reached 10,000 feet, it was time to jump - just before Mark jumped out, he looked at me and asked me to marry him! Of course I said yes and jumped out after him. When we landed friends and family were waiting for us with champagne and of course, the ring. It was very romantic and a huge surprise.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I finished college, I moved to Queensland for two years. I eventually became home sick and moved back to Canberra. I was out partying one night with girlfriends at a bar and Mark asked a mutual friend to introduce us. We danced for a while and he asked me out to dinner the following Saturday night - I knew he was the one from that first dance. We bought a house together two years later and lived there for three years - Mark told me that he had won a prize on a local radio station for us to go skydiving. I had never done anything like it before and was very nervous, but he kept telling me that it would be ok and that I would love it. We went up in a tiny plane and when we reached 10,000 feet, it was time to jump - just before Mark jumped out, he looked at me and asked me to marry him! Of course I said yes and jumped out after him. When we landed friends and family were waiting for us with champagne and of course, the ring. It was very romantic and a huge surprise.</p>
<p>We had a Catholic ceremony at the Sacred Heart Church at Rosalie. It is truly a beautiful church with lots of stained glassed windows, high ceilings, it was just so picture perfect! Our reception followed at the Botanical Gardens at Mt Cootha. The day was so romantic, yet fun and exciting at the same time. We had friends from overseas and interstate, which made our wedding even more special. I couldn&#8217;t have asked for a more spectacular wedding day. We only wish the day didn&#8217;t go by so quickly. We would give the world to do it all again, but we have our memories to look back on and cherish always.</p>
<p>Three years later on that very same day Jas took me out for a romantic dinner overlooking the Murray River for our anniversary. After dinner we sat on a park bench whereby Jas surprised me, by asking me to marry him. He presented me with a silver box which contained a cut out picture of a diamond ring. It popped out to me when I opened it. I couldn&#8217;t believe it. I was ecstatic and I kept on having to ask him if he was serious before I could really digest what had actually happened. Naturally I said &#8220;Yes&#8221; and afterwards we went and had ice-cream, and took a romantic stroll along the river. I was still in disbelief, but on cloud nine just the same.</p>
<p>My favourite part of the day was walking down the aisle, holding my father&#8217;s hand - progressing toward the man I was to marry, the most wonderful man in the world. We had the fairytale reception at Curzon Hall. It was just beautiful. The staff were very professional and the food was lovely. We had a traditional reception in a true castle. What I had always dreamt of. In fact, the reception was the easiest thing to arrange, because I had the help of Christine at Curzon Hall who guided me through the process and gave great advice. It was a true joy to plan the reception.</p>
<p>Our home towns are worlds apart, mine being Gracac, Croatia and Neil&#8217;s in Dallas, USA, but we met in Perth where we were both living, through an Internet chat program called ICQ. We quickly discovered that we had many things in common, so I then decided to ask him out for a date. We began dating regularly and the rest is like a fairytale. I&#8217;ve never been closer to anyone, he truly is my best friend and my best boyfriend. One night (4th of August, 2003) Neil picked me up from work and we went to Kings Park, to the place where we had met for the very first time. He knelt down and proposed to me in the most beautiful way.</p>
<p>Leo and I met in March 1999 one night when I was out with friends, and not really looking to meet anyone. Little did I know I would find my Mr Right! We chatted a few times, I thought he was really cute, smart, funny and rather charming. We started dating and the more we got to know each other, the more we fell in love and the rest, as they say, is history! Leo proposed on the 1st September 2001, I will always remember the date being the first day of Spring. We were at a hotel in Canberra - it was perfect!</p>
<p>For the complete stories, please visit truebride.com.au. If you have a wedding coming up, Wendy Stoller would like to invite you to visit her site for <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.weddingspeechesexamplesbuzz.info/">Free Wedding Speeches Examples</a>.</p>
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		<title>Band Booking Essentials</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul White</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When you know what type of function band you need and the songs you want them to play for your celebrations, band booking is so much easier.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you know what type of function band you need and the songs you want them to play for your celebrations, band booking is so much easier.</p>
<p>Band booking for some people seems to be challenging, but it does not have to be. Regardless of the type of event you are planning such as wedding reception, parties and other social events, you want a function bad that is most appealing to you and your guests. Remember, you want a versatile band that can play all sorts of favorites from the&#8217;50s to the most modern music styles.</p>
<p>Using the online search engines such as Google will make finding just the right band a whole lot faster and easier for you.</p>
<p>Choosing a band is not so hard as long as you stick with professionals who take pride in their music as well as their appearance. The majority of serious bands will have their own website or at least some type of social networking page. They often feature their videos and music so you get an idea of the way they present themselves and their music.</p>
<p>Spending some time to get to know about them on their website is essential. Look for the small meaningful details such as the profiling of all band members and all the information you can find on the band online.</p>
<p>What is the band&#8217;s reputation like? After all you all only have their word what their reputation is like. A good way of checking is to ring some of the past venues they have played at and ask the venues what they thought of the band. Any views they give are probably going to be closer to the truth as they have no bias.</p>
<p>If the band has a future gig listing, visit one of the locations where they are performing to help you make up your mind about hiring them for your event.</p>
<p>You need to make sure that the location you have chosen for your event is suitable for the function band you choose. You need to make sure that the location does have a live band license. There must also be ample parking for loading and unloading any heavy equipment the band may need. You also need to check the stage area to make sure it can accommodate the size of the band and their equipment, while ensuring there is also ample power outlets for their use.</p>
<p>If you keep these band booking essentials in mind, you will have a much easier time finding and securing the best function band you can afford.</p>
<p>Expert Alec Pittman is a writer for the http://www.souldesire.co.uk site. Making the right <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/band-booking/">Band Booking</a> will ensure the success of your event. Find out more about ensuring you make the correct <a relpost="nofollow" href="http://www.souldesire.co.uk/">Band Booking</a> from this site.</p>
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		<title>With Determination To Succeed</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 07:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Margaret Hardisty</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Lance Armstrong won the Tour de France so many times, despite the bitterness of the French press that tried to discredit him time and again, that it astonishes us. He rose from cancer victim to cancer conqueror to cycling victor. He was determined. At times he fell behind other cyclists in different stages of the races. Reportedly, falling behind was on purpose so he could conserve his strength for more difficult stages. Other times, it was because someone, perhaps a sprinter, put on a burst of speed and outdid him.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lance Armstrong won the Tour de France so many times, despite the bitterness of the French press that tried to discredit him time and again, that it astonishes us. He rose from cancer victim to cancer conqueror to cycling victor. He was determined. At times he fell behind other cyclists in different stages of the races. Reportedly, falling behind was on purpose so he could conserve his strength for more difficult stages. Other times, it was because someone, perhaps a sprinter, put on a burst of speed and outdid him.</p>
<p>He proved himself to be a champion racer. He did not quite make it to champion father. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, champion though he was on the bicycle, he was a dud when it came to relationships and marriage. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father. If he had been a champion husband he would have used that will power to work on his marriage and not leave a string of failed marriages and relationships behind him. His legitimate children would still have a full time father, and his other children wouldn&#8217;t have to carry the stigma of illegitimacy around with them all of their lives.</p>
<p>Perhaps the fact that he was an illegitimate child, himself, that his birth father left him and his mother, and that his mother had married and divorced three times, had something to do with his attitude toward relationships Or perhaps it was his lack of faith as an agnostic. He is quoted as saying: At the end of the day, if there was indeed some body or presence standing there to judge me, I hoped I would be judged on whether I had lived a true life&#8230;</p>
<p>He wants to live a true life, but yet he abandons those who love him. Yes, he was true to cycling. No, he wasn&#8217;t true in his personal life. Or so it seems. However, since we don&#8217;t know the man personally, it could be that he would have been true had his wives been true. We don&#8217;t know who was at fault, but if he is like the majority of men, and especially since he had to be gone much of the time to pursue his career, it is likely that he didn&#8217;t meet his wives&#8217; and girlfriends&#8217; emotional needs - essential for women.</p>
<p>Every marriage should have, as its goal, love that reaches the arte level, the Greek word for excellence. &#8220;That&#8217;s easy,&#8221; newlywed say when they still have the stars in their eyes. &#8220;We&#8217;re doing fine,&#8221; says the husband who isn&#8217;t meeting his wife&#8217;s emotional needs. &#8220;I&#8217;ve settled for less than what I desire,&#8221; says the wife who has given up hope.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what our Love Relationship System is all about - showing couples how to reach that level of arte or close to it. Excellent relationships are the ones that stand the test of time and trails. Be willing to put the same indomitable spirit into making your marriage a victorious journey in life as Lance Armstrong has done to become a worldwide champion.</p>
<p>Be willing to put the same indomitable spirit into making your marriage a victorious journey in life as Lance Armstrong has done to become a worldwide champion; so that, unlike him, you can save your marriage and give your children that wonderful knowledge that they have steady, loving parents who will keep things together. We give you the tools and the keys for doing just that at www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com: separate tools both for men and for women. Come join us now for a sparkling future in your marriage.</p>
<p>Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com</p>
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